Omid Kahangi wrote:

Well said Jesse. Doug was a beautiful person and his memory will live on with many of us as we celebrate the blessing of having him in our lives.

posted at January 25, 2007 05:29 PM

neil culpepper wrote:

im very sorry to hear about doug. from what i could see on the television , he generated a true warmth,,, take care,, neil culpepper

posted at January 25, 2007 10:05 PM

Chad wrote:

Beautiful post. So sorry for your loss.

-C

posted at January 26, 2007 02:43 PM

Rodney Huffstickler wrote:

I am sorry to hear about this passing of a very healthy and gree spirit of a man. I remember him from watching the show and how open and friendly he was. I know that the pain is still there, but in time it will be less sthan before. It is hard to believe that someone you may know or be friends with are here one day and gone the next. I wish the Family of Doug Blasdell the best and love in this time. My prayers are with you all. God Bless and be safe. Love a friend, Rodney Hufstickler. 39 year old gay white male.

posted at January 26, 2007 04:55 PM

Liem wrote:

A well thoughtout eulogy. My condolences to you as well as Doug's family and friends.

posted at January 27, 2007 05:12 PM

Bernard wrote:

Nicely said. My condolences to all who knew him, he seemed like a real sweet guy-

posted at January 27, 2007 11:49 PM

Barbara Minton wrote:

Jesse,
It made me very happy to read your Blog. I am Doug's Aunt and Long time friend. He was so proud of this show and all the wonderful friends he had made. He would call me before the show and make sure I was going to watch it. He asked me to pray that it was picked up for another season (I did) We are so happy that Doug had such wonderful friends in his life such as you. Thank you to all of you on workout for helping Doug's Dream come true. (I always knew it would happen for him)

posted at January 31, 2007 05:08 PM

Cindy B wrote:

I am very sad to hear about Doug, I really enjoyed him the first season, he seemed like a very genuine, caring person. How did he die? Will there be an episode in his honor?

posted at February 14, 2007 12:30 AM

Glenn wrote:

Doug was a role model for gay men. He lived his life out and proud and with much dignity. I just wish there were more gay role models like Doug on TV and in society. It must have been an honor to have known Doug even for such a short time. He will be greatly missed.

posted at February 25, 2007 12:59 AM

Bill Ney wrote:

Jesse, I just saw the ads for season 2. In revisting the web site I just found out about Doug leaving us for a while. My condolences to you and all of Doug's friends, family, and co-workers.

posted at February 26, 2007 12:58 PM

Frank Bianchini wrote:

I was just told that Doug had passed away and I am in total shock. Doug was my room mate in Newport Beach many years ago and was one of the most wonderful guy you could know. He went to USC with my partner whom also passed away 7 years ago. I will always remember Doug and I can only think that he is with Todd watching USC Fight On. God Bless him.

posted at March 5, 2007 06:49 PM

Joe wrote:

Jesse, that was beautiful. He seemed like a great guy, trainer and positive role model for gay men. We had alot in common. I'm a 48 year old gay trainer and I was happy to see him portraying someone just like me. I had always hoped to meet him. I hope they keep his memory alive on the show.

posted at March 7, 2007 03:40 AM

mike williams wrote:

i am truely at a lose for words i knew doug for over 10 years he was one of the most incredible human beings i have ever met i am truly devistated by his loss his smile could light up a room his freindship was forever we shared many trials in our lives as they crossed paths and doug was always there for me .. he would call and say hey mike i need to get the hell out of la for awhile . lets hangout in your jacuzzi and catch up with each other ..my heart aches knowing i will never get that call again / however i know i have one hee
l heeluva a buddy on the other side .. cant wait to see you again my friend... i love you mike

posted at March 7, 2007 03:32 PM

mike williams wrote:

i am truely at a lose for words i knew doug for over 10 years he was one of the most incredible human beings i have ever met i am truly devistated by his loss his smile could light up a room his freindship was forever we shared many trials in our lives as they crossed paths and doug was always there for me .. he would call and say hey mike i need to get the hell out of la for awhile . lets hangout in your jacuzzi and catch up with each other ..my heart aches knowing i will never get that call again / however i know i have one hee
l heeluva a buddy on the other side .. cant wait to see you again my friend... i love you mike

posted at March 7, 2007 03:32 PM

mike williams wrote:

i am truely at a lose for words i knew doug for over 10 years he was one of the most incredible human beings i have ever met i am truly devistated by his loss his smile could light up a room his freindship was forever we shared many trials in our lives as they crossed paths and doug was always there for me .. he would call and say hey mike i need to get the hell out of la for awhile . lets hangout in your jacuzzi and catch up with each other ..my heart aches knowing i will never get that call again / however i know i have one hee
l heeluva a buddy on the other side .. cant wait to see you again my friend... i love you mike

posted at March 7, 2007 03:32 PM

Rod from NYC wrote:

Just tonight I read in Advocate of Doug Blasdell's passing. Just recently I'd started following the show in reruns. And Doug Blasdell was the draw!

I only got to know Doug's inner beauty on a repeat of WorkOut. Why after a rerun? Well...

When the show first came on, I regrettably admit to dismissing it's concept, Jackie, AND this gorgeous man (Doug) as just purveyors of Circuit L.A. GymRat propaganda with no substance. Shame on me and my jaded self. Thank God I accidentally caught an episode in passing. Literally.

My Tivo helped cath me up with retroactive episodes. I was at once suprised and won over! Doug proved to be such a sweetheart.

There's one episode where he comforts co-trainer Zen during a hike trail. If you guys watched, you'll know which one I mean. I forget what he told her to assuage her anxiety but it brought me to tears. I don't cry easily, but it spoke volumes about his spirit.

I remember thinking: "His boyfriend hit the lottery with this guy" Who hasn't longed for a boyfriend like Doug, yet too often endep up disappointed by the rampant emptiness in this lifestyle?

Yet here was this Doug guy. Real, not made up. I was humbled. The exchange with Zen just renewed my faith in finding a deeper commitment with someone. And boy was I surprised he was 44. TOTALLY didn't look it! Beauty all around.

I'm late to do so, but I miss him just the same. The world needs more human beings like Doug. So wherever you are, they're gonna love you, Doug Blasdell... Just like WE did!

Rod
NYC

posted at March 20, 2007 12:08 AM

Bruce wrote:

I truly extend my thoughts and comfort to you all after Doug's pasing to the next nad wondrous life. I just wanted tomention that I think you all need someone to be there and consistntly reinforce logic into the tv issues that come up. I understand much of it is edited and exagerated for tv. I assume Jackie is dating others (obvious she knew the one ended but simply wanted the long termone to continue because it was long term). Yuo guys all seem so special, it would just be fun to have someone spouting logic and getting rebuffed an dthen..oh, yeah. Look forward to all the episodes.

posted at March 21, 2007 12:13 AM

Christopher from Santa Fe wrote:

I'd been waiting for the season premier of Work Out to air, got everything ready sat down and caught the statement at the beginning of the show...
"In memory of Doug Blasdell". I'm shocked and deeply saddened. I really enjoyed watching Doug on the show. He had an incredible spirit and was and great inspiration to others including myself. I, at 47 started working out again because Doug inspired me all over again. He was great role model for all of us!

posted at March 21, 2007 12:15 AM

Keith wrote:

Wow what a shock and a half.....I was wondering if Doug was gonna be on the show for this season, but after i got on line here and read that he had passed away of this year, i was in a total bigtime shock......Well my Sympathy and heart goes out to Dougs family.....May you now rest in peace.........God Bless Doug!!!!!!!!!!!!!....sincerely,Keith

posted at March 21, 2007 03:27 AM

virginia wrote:

I love the show "Work Out", and was shocked to hear of Dougs passing. Very unexpected and sad!! On the first episode of the second season, I really felt for him when he was trying to give Jesse a compliment and Jesse took it the wrong way. He seemed like a great guy!!
Virginia from
Michigan

posted at March 21, 2007 09:36 AM

andrew wrote:

I think you have said some wonderful things here and I regret that I never met him. How sad that sometimes we can only eulogize and appreciate people after they are gone.

posted at March 21, 2007 10:46 AM

Dave wrote:

I was brought to tears when I read the above blog. I wondered what happened as in the beginning of the first episode of season 2 it states that this season is dedicated to Doug. I just finished watching the 1st episode and was brought to tears that when I read this as your co--workers had you and Doug speak it out about your interviews in the episode....YES, it is better to get it out, and move on and NOT hold a grudge. I just went through this with my best friend last August, he was killed this past February...was so happy and thankful that he and I had that talk....NO GRUDGES....your words in your blog will touch many.....thank you for that.....
Sincerely,
Dave
Cocoa, FL

posted at March 21, 2007 12:23 PM

Glenn wrote:

Jesse,
That was a beautiful tribute to Doug. I wish I had known him.

posted at March 21, 2007 01:59 PM

Oskar wrote:

Jesse,
You wrote this so well. I hope that you not only live your life as if it were your last....But in the mean time while your still hear...,treat people with a bit more kindness and quiet being so snappy....not everyone is out to be rude...give people a chance to get to know you and don't be quick to put up the walls.
Because you Never know when its that persons last day.

Be Sweet and kind Cowboys are kind people too
Oskar...Texas

posted at March 21, 2007 02:21 PM

Scott wrote:

Well, along with most others, I anxiously awaited the start of the second season, and was surprised to see it was being dedicated to Doug. I'm a 44 yr old gay male with Aids, and it just makes you realize the gift of each day we are given. I'll continue to watch, and promise to get my sorry butt back into the gym. It must be nice to have the motivation from someone on "Workout." Thanks for the inspiration!

posted at March 21, 2007 03:52 PM

patty wrote:

When I was watching the season premiere last night I couldn't believe the opening dedication to Doug. I was shocked just like everyone else to learn he was dead. Watching reality TV sometimes you feel connected to the people and then when you learn something like this it is so devastating. It makes me sad for the other trainers and I hope that he and Jesse were able to resolve their differences.

posted at March 21, 2007 05:08 PM

Elle Morris wrote:

I can't believe that he is gone. My deepest condolences to you, Jackie and all of his friends on Workout. He was a beautiful man.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:52 PM

Bill O'Brien wrote:

It's indisputable that Doug had a beautiful body and smile but the outstanding draw of the guy was his spirit and heart.In most cases,a television persona portrayed by short snippets of edited film is hardly representative of the "inner" person but Dougs warmth and kind soul are clearly evident. He should be proud to know he achieved his goal of showing the world that a gay man could be a positive role model. I'm a 46 y/o gay physician in the backwoods of Oklahoma with a similar goal as Doug but only a fraction of his strength. I appreciate the inspiration of his presence and would hope to grow from it.
Peace...Doc in Oklahoma

posted at March 22, 2007 12:48 AM

Erica wrote:

My heart is broken. What a beautiful spirit. May we all learn from example.
Please look at www.mombian.com
according to the website Doug passed away from a brain tumor. Funny how they are the only site with this info. Or is Bravo trying to have a finally at Doug's expense? Sad truly sad. God Bless and peace be with you. Always.

posted at March 22, 2007 09:32 PM

larry giuffrida wrote:

Hello Jesse-
I am a 110 pounds overweight. A 39 year old man stuck in a huge hole. It is so funny how life throws you curve balls and with them comes a sense of self pity and sorrow. Well, after seeing Doug, such a healthy looking person pass away it just opened my eyes that I need to stop taking my life for granted and dig out of this rut.
Now, I am new to watching your program and found it extremely entertaining. Your show gets you hooked on all the trainers lives in and out of the gym. I was very sorry on Doug's passing. He was very special. The brief time I was able to view him on WorkOut and then finding out he was no longer with us gave me a kick in the pants. He was attractive, built, educated, and a positive role model for the viewing public. I wish to truly thank him and you Jesse, for showing mainstream America a normal side of our gay & lesbian community. Keep up making the show so interesting and thanks.

posted at March 23, 2007 01:10 AM

Sam wrote:

What devastating news. I had watched the first episode of the new season and later realized that I had preset my DVR to record the show. I had missed the beginning so I thought I would watch it again. Having read the dedication, I researched online to find that Doug had passed away. What a shock. Jesse, your eulogy was beautiful and thoughtfully written. From watching the first season of Workout, I loved Doug's amazing soul. He cared very much about his friends and his coworkers. He had the calmness and peacefulness of someone who has grown wise from life experiences. I can only hope you (Jesse) and I discover such groundedness and resolve. Doug is truely an inspiration. He will be sorely missed and I am saddened that such a beautiful person has left us. May he be in a better place, a place where he is appreciated as much as he is still appreciated here.
On a lighter note, I have to say "Workout", season one, was truely inspiring. I started workout out again last summer and began my journey to good fitness. Last December, I began to work harder on nutrition, cycling the workouts to shock my muscles and my 6-pack abs was the payoff. I think your show doesn't emphasize nutrition enough. I know the show's name is Workout but the show is also about healthy living. Jesse, in watching the first episode of the new season, I was suprised that you have stopped working out and was eating poorly. It would have been more inspiring if you would have shared your culinary expertise to give us creative and tasty ways of making healthy eating more flavorful and easy. I eat 5 to 6 times a day and I'm always looking for tasty healthy recipes. You are a role model for many and that comes with responsibilities. In the past I've used food for comfort and I still allow myself to do that but only for a day and then I'm right back on the healthy track. When I workout but even more when I eat well, I get the satisfaction of knowing that I love myself enough to give my body the loving care it should have. Jesse, you're an attractive, entertaining, loving man. You need to kick yourself in the ass and love yourself by caring for it better.

posted at March 23, 2007 05:12 AM

Nicolette from Tampa, FL wrote:

Dear Jesse,
I read what you wrote about life and Doug's passing several times. You are right. Today I will try and forgive, amoung other things. Small steps lead to big changes. Love to Doug Blasdell, his family and friends. May he rest in peace. xxoo

posted at March 23, 2007 11:10 AM

david wrote:

I was shocked to hear about Doug, I had no idea. I am a 400# diabetic individual, 44 years old. I have tons of health problems and I am just praying that it's not too late to change to a more healthy lifestyle. I lost my friends in the late 80's/early 90's to AIDS. I am 200# overwt. I wish that I could meet with Jackie or Jesse to get a kick in the a__ and get my butt goin. We always think we have so much time. Life is short w/out making it shorter by eating donuts and pizza. I want to live but I am pretty much lost. I don't know where to begin, how to begin and I feel hopeless and sad.

The show is way too cool. I love it and it certainly is NOT boring, never boring. Many issues apply to my life and it is so cool. I also understand the issue of grouping fat people who are gay into a certain "bad" category and then there is the butch/fem group. All these groups drive me crazzzzzy! We all have a little bit of each and if we are more like Jack - hey I think that's a good thing ! If you are more like Brad Pitt - hey I'm into that too. As you can tell I have no answer so Jesse if you want to contact me or Jackie I would love to have your help getting started or just to say "hello". I can't wait for episode #2, great!

posted at March 23, 2007 04:24 PM

Jerry from Philly wrote:

Wow, a little blown away I have to admit to think that Doug from this show died so unexpectedly - I had to google to this site to make sure!

Jesse, your post is a loving tribute - thoughtful, gracious and true to you. Unexpected random events in the universe unfortunately bring growth and acceptance of the cycle of our lives here and somehow point the way to our purpose.

I watched the first season after just clicking by one week. And, am embarrassed to admit that I thought the drama seemed to be somewhat manufactured (a general view of most of the "reality" shows). Nothing could have ever prepared me to read the opening memorial to Doug.

Peace and Keep on Truckin. We'll all be together soon.

posted at March 24, 2007 07:30 PM

Sean wrote:

Just read that Doug passed away months ago. Wow. what a sad,sad,shame. Jackie sitting on him while he did push-ups, for the promo, got me watching this show.I saw him once in Palm Springs, and he looked even better in person. He was a very good man. Watching 'Workout' will be very difficult for me now.

posted at March 27, 2007 07:53 AM

pat wrote:

I am shocked to hear of Dougs death. His grandmother(whom he totally adored) was my aunt. He was such a kind and gentle person. The last time I had talked to him was at his mothers funeral. I really would like to know if anyone has contacted his sister Sandee about his passing or if anybody knows where she is residing. Again I am totally shocked after I read the article in the star magazine. Love to all of you who cared for him.

posted at March 27, 2007 01:13 PM

Angel wrote:

Hey Jesse...How are you? I know what it is to lose a loved one. Doug seemed so down to earth and warm. I got tearry-eyed when I heard the terrible news.

posted at March 27, 2007 10:21 PM

Rev. Mike Einspanjer wrote:

hey jess!
so sorry to hear about the passing of your buddy Doug. you are in my prayers. PS. if you are ever in memphis, please say howdy. Dinner is on me.

posted at March 28, 2007 11:50 AM

skylar wrote:

Jesse, that was beautifully written. Your approaching Doug to mend fences has made me want to resolve any long simmering disputes I have held onto with friends and family.

posted at March 28, 2007 04:23 PM

mark wrote:

well said jesse. life is a journey and death is a part of that journey keep the joy of doug with you always

posted at March 29, 2007 12:13 AM

Joan K. wrote:

Hi Jesse,
I was shocked and so sad when I heard about Doug's passing, am glad the two of you set things right.
I love the show and think Jackie is the greatest.

posted at March 29, 2007 11:46 AM

Beckah wrote:

Doug was amazing. Such a beautiful smile, such a handsome man. I watched the show and he was my favorite trainer. Much love to his family and friends. He made the world a better place.

posted at March 29, 2007 02:17 PM

Christopher A. Cline wrote:

Jesse,

y heart goes out to you all. Does anyone know the status of his former lover? I'd like to write him as I, too, am a dialysis patient awaiting a transplant. I'd like to keep in touch with him if possible. Can anyone pass my info along to him? Thanks, peace.

posted at March 29, 2007 02:54 PM

Henry Smith wrote:

Jesse, I am so glad you and Doug made up on the show. I knew you would because your beautiful smile shows you have a big heart! Workout is one of my favorite shows and I love watching and listening to anything you have to say!! Keep smiling cause we love your charm.

posted at March 29, 2007 04:40 PM

Lori wrote:

Hi Jesse,
Your words are wonderful. I just found out about Doug's passing today. Shocking isn't the word. Basically, I am speechless. He seemed like the nicest man. I am so sorry for this loss.

posted at March 29, 2007 05:19 PM

Julie wrote:

To ALL those at Sky Sport, viewers of Work Out show, and to all those who knew Doug, the world will feel his loss. If one can come across on a TV show, at the hands of a cameraman telling your story, and to come off as such a real warm, caring, gentle human being as Doug was shown to be, the actual person must have be such an honor to have known. I am all the way across the states in NH and feel very sadden by this. We need more people in this world like Doug!

I truly like the show. Jackie you are an inspiration to me, as a strong independent woman with a goal, desire to succeed, you had me on the first season when you said.....my place, my rules... You go girl!
Julie

posted at March 29, 2007 05:40 PM

Tawny Milano wrote:

Hi Jesse,
Loved the words you wrote celebrating Doug's life and legacy. The fact that you and the rest of us have picked up the torch and will continue on proves that his flame of love will burn forever. The recent episode with you and Doug at Jackie's party making up shows how much both of you appreciated the presence of one another. I love what you wrote about always making your presence known. You are dynamic, fun and genuine. Doug loved that about you and I do too!

posted at March 29, 2007 07:17 PM

TJ wrote:

I very accidentally caught an episode of this show, which I had not heard of this past week. This particular episode centered around the mythical gay hierarchy that many gay men use to value or more accurately devalue each other based on a superficial and transparent systems, especially true in gay subculture, with typical hallmarks being physical beauty, gym schedules, body fat percentages, material possessions, top/bottom and such. All people, every person has value. It is apparent from reading the postings here that Mr. Blasdell was a role model to many people, most of who didn't know him personally. What makes one a role model has infinite possibilities. Those who knew him personally suffer the loss of him leaving much too soon and I hope, as he goes to whatever is to be found beyond, gave them a long backward glance.

posted at March 29, 2007 10:56 PM

Gordon wrote:

Jesse..
Thanks for those words. Truly tender and from the heart. I was also shocked to hear about Doug's passing. I was so impressed with his spirit and personality while watching the show. And I along with many others will surely miss him - as you all will do as well. Keep up the great show!

posted at March 30, 2007 01:36 AM

John S. from San Diego, CA wrote:

Jesse - Thank you for your heart felt eulogy for Doug. The news of Doug brought me to tears and I immediately jumped on line and read the news, which brought me to your blog/eulogy. How fortunate you and the others in Doug's life were to have known him. I can only imagine the loss you all feel as it is clear that he was a loving, kind, sincere and beautiful man, both inside and out. The world was a better place with Doug in it. It is Heaven that is now blessed with Doug's strength and grace, his sincere kindness for others, and his unconditional love of life. God bless you, Doug. You are missed.

posted at March 30, 2007 02:08 AM

Michele from PA wrote:

Jesse, your statement was well written and very genuine. Doug had so much wisdom for his age. His personality is what makes his passing harder to intake. I am 37 year old divorced female. I wish I had a person like Doug in my life. Prayers go out to his friends and family.

posted at March 30, 2007 10:20 AM

LisaCampagnolo wrote:

Jesse,

I am always in thought of what may happen at an instant . So this is why I try to instill in my kids and my life to say we are sorry and mean it. I was happy to know that you and Doug had patched up things to continue a great friendship. I saw Doug on the show as you describe him truely a genuine soul. As the new season started and I saw most of you on the commercials but not Doug. I thought hmmm . I don't see Doug Come to find out on the season opener all the shows are dedicatd to him . My family and I send Deepest sympathies to you for your loss.
For All of his family and friends ..... May the memories you shared with Doug live on forever in your hearts!

Live for Tomorrow,

Lisa C.

posted at March 30, 2007 03:18 PM

Chuck wrote:

I'm a fan of the show and just saw the season's dedication to Doug and that's how I learned of his passing. I'm so sorry for Doug's family and his friends at SkySport. He seems like he was such a great guy, like a guy anyone could be friends with. I never met the guy but I miss him anyway.

posted at March 31, 2007 04:36 AM

James Chappell wrote:

Hi Jesse,
I just finished watching the show that was dedicated to the memory of Doug. That is how I found out he had passed away. What a terrible loss for you, his other friends and loved ones. Your comments about him brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful tribute to a good friend. He will be missed. And, how Doug lived life is true. Live each day as if it is your last. I lost my best friend, Larry, a few years ago and it leaves a hole in your heart that can't be filled. Larry always said, "We are not promised a tomorrow, so live life today." This is very true!
Thanks for your comments about Doug, and for being a strong role model and an insiration.
All my best to you and your WorkOut team.
James Chappell
Ann Arbor, Michigan

posted at March 31, 2007 06:27 PM

Sharon D. wrote:

I am a big fan of the show saw the dedication today & for the 1st time went to the website. All the best memories to Doug's family & friends. Jesse your eulogoy was wonderful. Since 1983 I have lost over 75 friends to AIDS, & almost lost my best friend a few weeks ago to heart failure...it doesn't get any easier but it does get better. Smile...He'll be with you always!

posted at March 31, 2007 09:29 PM

Ray wrote:

WOW! I was so surprise when I ran into this article. I was surfing the net of Bravotv.com and I was just wondering how come there was not any video's blogs of Doug or pictures in the Workout link. That's when I saw this and I felt speechless to find out that Doug had died. I can't imagine the feeling of his co-workers, friends and relatives for I am a TV viewer and even I can miss him. I have to agree with every bit of this article. Let's try to be happy for his life, for God lent him was lent to his family to make them happier, to his friends to be their friend and even to us, the TV viewers to enjoy our nights and learn a bit more on how to have a healthier lifestyle, which I am sure he would have agree starts in our minds. I am sure he will be missed but I am surer that he will be remembered, and that's what makes a man great when his dreams, the one's he builds during his lifetime can go beyond life and become everybody else's dreams...

posted at April 1, 2007 12:18 AM

Dustin wrote:

I was shocked and extremely saddened when I just found out about his passing. I normally don't watch much television, but when I was flipping through channels on tv, I came across Bravo. Workout was on. I knew I wanted to watch it, because I always thought it was a fun show to watch. This episode I watched was of when Doug and Jesse made up by the pool. After the show was over with, I just had to check out bravotv.com and just find out more information on the show in general, and read bios of everyone. Well when I reached the last person on the list... it was Doug's. I didn't notice until I read his bio, there was an update, I immediately started crying. The first thought in my head was... "how?" It just makes me sit and wonder about life in general. How life is so unpredictable, and anything can happen. I really thought Doug was an amazing person. He was very attractive and genuine. I could sense it already because of his personality on the show. I know... from this day on... I will never take anything or anybody for granted for whatever reason. It isn't neccessary. It's so important to live each day as if it's the last... My heart goes to Doug's family and friends. I know I will be affected by this for some time.

posted at April 1, 2007 05:45 PM

Eddie wrote:

I would most definitely agree with Ray. Doug seemed like a great man! I too was surfing the net when i came across the "Meet the Trainers" link. I clicked on Doug's link only to see the sad tragedy under the editors notes. Watching last season was truly a learning experience, seeing the passion Doug put into everything and how much everyone enjoyed his company has made me want to be like him. I only expect to learn and grow more watching this season. My heart goes out to Doug's friends and family. He truly will be missed.

posted at April 1, 2007 07:09 PM

Bill wrote:

I am so sorry to hear about Doug's untimely death.
Will the show explain why he died? He didnt appear to be sick. He was a great assest to the show. He will be greatly missed.

posted at April 2, 2007 12:29 AM

Ty Kennon wrote:

I remember Doug from when I trained at the Athletic Club in W. Hollywood years ago. He was always a person who was respected by others and envied, I'm sure, by many. He was a very kind person who lived life with a great deal of integrity. I was sorry to hear recently about his unexpected passage. My thoughts and prayers are with him, and I'm glad to see the depth of so many lives that he touched and the remembrances expressed.

posted at April 2, 2007 10:44 AM

JAMES wrote:

JESSE.
Your words really touched my heart.
Iam shure Doug felt the same.
He seemed like a awesome person and friend.

posted at April 3, 2007 08:00 PM

BJ in Phoenix wrote:

I as well happended to see a rerun and now I love the show. I was brought to tears when I read your blog Jesse. Doug seemed like a very caring person and even though I didnt know him I will keep him in my heart. He will be missed so much.

posted at April 3, 2007 09:40 PM

Wenonah wrote:

I am so sorry for your loss. I hate to admit that it took me so long to become totally engrossed in such a wonderful show like "workout" but it did. I love the show! But I must confess that I was so drawn to Doug and his beautiful spirit. It wasn't until tonight that I realized he had passed and now here I sit in tears over a man I never knew. I read your blog Jesse and I was so incredibly touched. I don't know why such incredible people leave us so young but perhaps it is simply because they shine so brightly on Earth that God wants them to decorate the Heavens as well. I am so soooo sorry for your loss and I truly hope that you all carry on the things that he taught you and share them with many others. My prayers are with you all and I hope that God truly blesses each and every one of you.

posted at April 4, 2007 12:32 AM

Christi wrote:

I just recently began watching last seasons episodes and got really involved and was looking forward to getting to know the trainers and Jackie better.
I fell in love with Dougs compassion and was sad and upset to find out that he passed away and that they are going to announce it on the show next week
Jesse, Thanks for your kind words. Your way too sweet and I offer you and the others on work out my sympathy at your huge loss.
Doug is going to leave a huge void at SkySport that nobody will ever be able to fill.

posted at April 4, 2007 04:40 AM

Joan K. wrote:

Jesse,
I was so moved by your tribute to Doug, just the little time I saw him from the show I knew he was a great guy. He respected other people, too bad there aren't more like him around.
So sorry for your loss, he is still in our hearts and will not be forgotten.
I could see in his eyes how sad he was when you were talking to him about how he hurt you in what he said in that article, he never meant to hurt you, that wasn't like him. We are sure going to miss him. Love you Doug

posted at April 4, 2007 12:38 PM

Doris wrote:

What I noticed about Doug was the kindness he showed to everyone and it showed in his eyes.

posted at April 4, 2007 02:08 PM

Wendi from North Carolina wrote:

My heart is literally broken! Here it is April 4, 2007 and I am just now learning about Doug. I am truly upset. I was telling my b/f last night about how much I loved this show, and I told him that if I lived there, I would want Doug to be my trainer. He is the one gave a calmness in the middle of all the drama. I am totally speechless and that never happens! I will miss him so much. I don't know if the show will be the same without him.
I am very happy that you made peace with him. I couln't imagine how you would have felt if you did not. This should teach all of us to forgive and move-on, start with a clean surface.

posted at April 4, 2007 04:27 PM

Bonnie W wrote:

That was very beautiful Jesse!Doug will be long remembered for I'm sure he touched so many people who watch.I know he did me.

posted at April 4, 2007 08:31 PM

Liz wrote:

I feel so deeply sad in my heart that something like this could happen to someone so young and full of life! My heart goes out to all of Doug's family and friends. Liz CA

posted at April 5, 2007 12:37 AM

Cara M wrote:

Wow....how shocked I was tonight to see the ending of the show where they give you a preview of next week's show, I immdediately had to jump online to find out what happened to Doug! What a gorgeous gay man he was(still is in heaven) Great message you wrote up there Jesse! My sympathys to everyone who knew Doug personally

posted at April 5, 2007 01:21 AM

Paola G wrote:

Jesse:
First of all, I want to say that you are my favorite trainer on the show. You seem like you would be so fun to be around... I love ya. Second, I have to say your message is beautiful and I am so sorry that Doug passed away. He seemed like a wonderful human being and I am sure that he only left Earth becuase they needed him up in heaven. He's probably up there training angels. To his family and friends, God bless you and my sympathies.

posted at April 5, 2007 02:15 PM

Davie wrote:

Great tribute Jesse! Doug Blasdell was a wonderful guy. I never had the honor of knowing him personally, but I wish I had had this great honor. He was so warm, caring, loveable and sensitive toward others. For me, some of the other trainers seem superficial and self-centered...but not Doug. He thought only of others. I love the way he joked with you in the episode when after you apologoized he asked you back to his place. He did it in such a way that was sweet. I thought about you, Jesse..."Idiot! what is WRONG with you!!!for saying no. Doug was so sweet and boyish about it that you could not be offended by it. I only hope I will be fortunate enough to one day meet a great guy like Doug. That would really be wonderful! My deepest condolences to Doug's family and friends. Dougie, where ever you are... we all love you and we are the better for having had you with us unfortunately, for too short a time. :( Rest in peace Dougie.

posted at April 5, 2007 11:18 PM

Jeffrey wrote:

I just got hooked on "Workout" very recently, and really love the show. I was shocked to hear the news of Doug's passing. He seemed like a geniunely loving and caring person. I am deeply saddened and distressed to hear of his passing.

posted at April 5, 2007 11:48 PM

Erik Barnes wrote:

Jesse, you seem to be a great person and I was so happy to see you and Doug worked out your differences before he passed away. Doug's passion for life and the people around him makes me want to be a better person. We need more people like Doug on this Earth. Great blog in memory of your friend.

posted at April 6, 2007 12:59 AM

Brenda wrote:

Jesse: I am very sad and shocked to hear about Doug leaving us. He was an angel. Your tribute to him was so heartfelt! I loved it. Thanks for sharing it with all of us. I am so happy that you too made up. We never know the day nor the hour when something unexpected will happen so we need to always be ready. You are great on the show. I love it. Keep up the good work! I'll keep you all in my prayers. My sympathy and condolences to Doug's family and his Skysport family. After watching the episode tonight, you need to give Jackie some slack. You were a bit spicy with her...lighten up some!! LOL from Brenda in HotAtlanta

posted at April 6, 2007 01:44 AM

Ana wrote:

Hi Jesse!I´m Ana from Portugal.Yesterday i watch "Work out" for the first time (misses first season).I love it!!My favorites are you, Jackie and Doug. When i went to the site of the show,i saw this incredibly sad news about Doug´s dead.I´m still in schock!!Sorry for your lost...It´s very sweet of you to honor him this way!Keep the god work.What the three of you are doing for homosexual comunity all over the world is extremly important!You are perfect roal models!Thank you!

posted at April 6, 2007 03:41 PM

Carol wrote:

Well said, Jess. A fitting tribute to a man who was a role model for the human race. Yes, Doug was gay. Yes, Doug was a man. Yes, Doug was a fitness trainer. Doug was a calm voice of reason among the chaos that is reality t.v. He seemed so warm and you never saw him taking snipes at others - which makes him a role model for men and women and gays and straights and old and young. It was his humanity than shined through and you are all blessed to have known him personally and to have been able to call him "friend". My heart, my hopes and my prayers are with you all.

posted at April 7, 2007 12:52 PM

Kara wrote:

I was really sad to hear of Doug's passing. I thought he was such a great human being. He was such a sweet and caring guy. I loved everything about him. I wish I could have met him. I was a truly wonderful person that will be missed. My prayers to his family and friends. I know he is looking down on everyone he cared for with a big smile on his face.

posted at April 7, 2007 08:01 PM

nick wrote:

jesse,
I'm vary sad man.I just started watching the show I was really looking forward to see you and Doug interact together. You and him had great chemistry together and i think the show is not going to be the same with out him.

posted at April 8, 2007 12:23 AM

Rey Aquino wrote:

I didn't want to believe that Doug is no longer
in this world. When I saw his name that the
season' s show was dedicated to Doug. My
eyes and mind didn't register that it was
Doug Blasdell. Maybe I just didn't want it to
be true. Of what I saw in the show of Doug,
he was a compassionate, and caring person.
My sympathy to Doug's family, friends and
co-woorkers in WorkOut. We will all miss him.

posted at April 9, 2007 04:22 PM

Helen Bartels wrote:

Jesse,
I'm so sad to see Doug's passing. He such a nice person. I will miss him being on the show. My prayers to his family and friends. You guys have to be strong bec Doug would wanted that way.
Thanks
Helen

posted at April 9, 2007 04:27 PM

Michelle wrote:

Jesse,
I just recently stumbled upon the show WorkOut, and saw today of the passing of Doug. It was sad learning of this tragedy and in hind sight I am happy that you were able to make ammends to him before he left this body.
My deepest sympath goes out to you, his family and the WorkOut family.
PS...Tell Jackie to come in the ATL and open up a Skysport here...I love what she is doing!!!!

posted at April 9, 2007 07:50 PM

David wrote:

Well God must have needed a really GREAT trainer.
Now his got him.
Sad for us,But happy for him.His Home.
God Bless and Rest in Peace.
Knowing Doug Rest isn't in the picture,more like drop and give me Twenty.
We are all better people for knowing him.
With warmest regards,David.

posted at April 9, 2007 08:04 PM

Terri Fitzgerald wrote:

Very nice tribute Jesse ~ I have a hard time sometimes understanding how some things are referred to as "gay" or "for the gay community" etc. When I see Doug on the Workout episodes, I think of him as a professional, sincere, giving guy with such a pure heart...and yes he was gorgeous but his spirit was the real draw. Likewise unless Jesse or Jackie, etc. are having some big drama that focuses on their sexuality, I see them as PEOPLE, people I like to enjoy watching and learning from, people who have good days and bad days and definitely remarkable enough people not to be defined by their choice of partners. Being raised in Alabama (I know), I decided at an early age to be open minded and not follow the judgmental path because none of us are so good we have a right to judge others. After reading the blogs and seeing how proud everyone is of positive gay role models, I have to say my heart is really there for you all because being straight is just who I am, like being gay is just who you are. I have good days and not so good days, great business deals, disappointments, delays and disagreements with my husband just like everyone else. If I had to wake up everyday knowing that people who don't even know me were more focused on the intimate facets of my being, than just the joy and professionalism and love and kindness I put out there, it would be hard to be a positive, giving person. I pray for open mindedness and love for all of us in this world. Every day. One day, being a positive role model will be just that ~ A positive role model, gay, straight...whatever. In the meantime, thank you for sharing insights that some of us would otherwise not know.

posted at April 9, 2007 08:29 PM

Holly wrote:

Jesse, That was a beautiful tribute to Doug. Someone wrote that Doug was a great role model for gay men - perhaps - I like to think he was a great role model for all - his kindness, warmth and compassionate spirit are traits we could all emulate. My condolences to Doug's family, friends and co-workers in Workout.

posted at April 9, 2007 09:09 PM

Catherine wrote:

Jesse-
I was wondering if you have ever considered putting up a recipie of the day or something for those of us trying to incorporate more organic foods and cooking into our diet? Or do you have any great cook books you reccomend? Love the show, and as everyone else has expressed, I am also sorry to hear about your great friend Doug.

posted at April 10, 2007 02:12 PM

Tony wrote:

Jesse,
I'm truly sorry for your loss and your friends. Keep his memory close and safe in your heart. I could see on your face from the show, well I don't need to say it. I am truly sorry and sadden. Tony
Re-tired Army

posted at April 10, 2007 11:13 PM

Linda wrote:

Jesse, I was saddened to read of Doug's passing.
Your tribute to your dear friend was beautiful and touched my heart. I will be praying that you and Doug's other friends will find comfort for your broken hearts.
Linda

posted at April 11, 2007 12:00 AM

jose wrote:

".....when I see you again as I always do, it appears to me that detiny rules and the spirits are ruthless with the paths they choose....."
God Bless and Peace

posted at April 11, 2007 02:09 AM

Lesley wrote:

Jesse, thanks for writing about Doug. I'm sorry and sad this fine and loving man is no longer here on earth. God knows, the world needs more people like Doug in it. Rest in peace, Doug. And you take good care, Jesse.

posted at April 12, 2007 01:39 AM

Anonymous wrote:

Jesse, you have a way with words and I commend you for such an uplifting, positive tribute. Thank you.

posted at April 12, 2007 05:10 PM

Joe Eustace wrote:

Hi Jess, I've been hooked on "Workout" from the very first episode......I was in shock when I heard about Doug's sudden and unexpected passing. He was actually my favorite person on the show although I love all you guys....there was just something special about Doug.....He really seemed like a genuine person. So glad you were able to patch things up with him when you did. ]I wish the best for all of you as well as the show, and will miss seeing Doung. Take care Jess!

posted at April 12, 2007 06:15 PM

Joe wrote:

My girlfriend watches the show all the time and I've joined her a few times. The one person that stood out for me was Doug. His genuine kindness and approach of treating others was particularly inspirational. I didn't personally know the man but I feel like I can claim a stake in this loss. May more people in this world have the same respect and love for others as Doug did, that's my personal wish. Jesse, your comments are right on the money… we should all reflect. I feel almost re-born after finding out this utterly sad news. It motivates me to be more accepting and caring, which is far from how I currently operate.

posted at April 12, 2007 11:51 PM

jules wrote:

It is sad to see the episodes previous to Dougs death. It is sad to see all the drama that people have to go through. Doug was very nice and didn't deserve to be ridiculed just because he compared jesse to Will on Will and Grace. Jesse, you are Will, except not as nice. That was a compliment that he gave you. I hope all that drama was scripted, because Doug did not deserve it.

posted at April 13, 2007 01:39 AM

Jimmy Z wrote:

I am from Ohio where one of the trainers hails from and I will be in LA this month staying at Shade Hotel and dinning and Ivy by the shore with a dear friend of mine who runs
Associated Talent Management.

In an odd way I would be expecting to see Doug somewhere there. To me he was that type of person and really added a nice dimesnion. It seems we continue to lose all the good ones.

Jesse your tribute is very fitting.

JFZ

posted at April 13, 2007 10:26 AM

LeBron wrote:

I never met Doug. However, I will miss him. Doug Blasdell seemed to be one of the few cast members on the Bravo reality series WORKOUT that was genuine and real! While the rest of the cast concentrated on bad relationshihps and their own vanity, Doug showed a kindness and warmth of spirit that went beyond television and touched hearts.

posted at April 14, 2007 07:07 PM

McKeith wrote:

Jesse that was great of you and Doug will b emissed. He was genuine, and I got that just by seeing him. I wish you all the best in carrying on. This is new for the us(the viewing world) all, but you and the crew have had some time to deal with this. God bless you all. Sincerely, McKeith

posted at April 17, 2007 10:46 AM

Dana wrote:

I am so struck in awe from this news.

My prayers are with you all.

posted at April 17, 2007 05:08 PM

Monika from Michigan wrote:

My thoughts and prayers are with Dougs family, which of course includes the whole gym crew. It's always sad to hear a person such as Doug left this world, but I'm sure wherever he is , he's looking down with that great smile of his ...

posted at April 17, 2007 06:42 PM

Chris J wrote:

I had no idea that Doug is no longer with the team. I just came into the series 3 days ago. I'm sorry to hear about this. The Skylab team must've been truely crushed by this anachronism. Once again, sorry for the loss....

posted at April 17, 2007 09:47 PM

Eileen M Canney Wagner wrote:

I just watched "Work Out"'s mini-marathon tonight and went online to see how Doug was doing. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his sudden death. On screen, he seemed so vibrant and alive.... learning of his death reminded me of the frailty of life. I join you in your sorrow and I'm praying for you and your colleagues at SkySport, and will keep you all in my prayers.

posted at April 17, 2007 11:32 PM

Kris wrote:

Jesse,

It have been quite a while since I have read such truly profoun homage being paid to a truly awsome human being. You the most moving espiode of the show was when you and Doug patched things up! Thank Jesse for humbling yourself in doing that. That was really big of you.

We have got to stick togather if we don't then what good are we.

You are right that Doug is in a much better place now with his Parents!

posted at April 18, 2007 01:17 PM

Max wrote:

Dear Jesse,
I am in shock hearing about Doug's death. I downloaded the first show of the new season and saw a dedication to Doug. It is just hard to imagine that someone so fit and looked so great could die so suddenly. It is very sad news.

posted at April 20, 2007 02:25 AM

sacha wrote:

I still can't get over the fact that a beautiful person like Doug passed away at such a young age. The girls at work cut out his picture from the magazine and posted it on the glass window because he really looked like one of the reps who come and visit us. Since i was the only Workout viewer there, I told them that the guy in the picture is no longer with us.Doug was my favorite trainer and I will miss him.
BTW, the rep that looks like Doug B.is also named Doug.

posted at April 21, 2007 08:04 AM

Astrid wrote:

Jesse,
This was beautifully written. I know you meant every word. Doug knows you were a good friend and I'm sure he misses you too. I wish he didn't have to go so soon, but I'm sure he's needed wherever he went. I do agree with you... He's upgraded!
Thanks for your words. They've comforted many of us.

posted at April 21, 2007 10:49 AM

Mike wrote:

Many years ago, Doug worked out at the same gym as me. He was a physically beautiful man. When I would see him, I always thought to mysel, "what a beautiful man." I would think to myslef when I saw him coming, "he comes the most beautiful man in the gym." I never thought he would want to hang out with a man like me. But, I met him. I spent time with him and his ex-lover.

Each time I hung out with Doug, I was amazed with his kindness. We had some very heartfelt and deep conversations. I had about 5 of these experiences. We talked about the people who had passed away in his life. I had just lost both my parents. He talked about his days at USC and Woodland Hills. I will cherish those talks.

I was shocked to come across WorkOut today. I looked up the website and was shocked to learn that Doug had passed away. I can truly say that Doug was beautiful on the outside but 10 times more beautiful on the inside. My condolences to his family and all of his friends. Doug's kindness will continue to inspire me.

posted at April 21, 2007 09:26 PM

David wrote:

I just found out Doug passed on. I am so thankful he could share his integrity to the world. What a wonderful man. He was incredible.

posted at April 23, 2007 03:28 PM

Krisann wrote:

I lost my husband at 37 Nov. 2006 and I had no idea Doug had gotten so sick. Jesse, your writting is beautiful and it brought up a lot of pain I've pushed deep down and tucked it away. My heart is breaking for all of his family and friends. I understand a sudden death carries more than sadness but also shock. I'm still in a fog and I'm very angry, your writting is an inspiration and makes me realize I need to open up my heart and try to move forward so my husband can be proud of how I raised our children. Doug was a sweetheart of a man, he wore his heart on his sleeve and I will miss watching that beautiful man give others strength.

posted at April 24, 2007 10:55 PM

Michelle wrote:

After watching tonight's episode and seeing the preview for next week, I had a sick, sinking feeling. I had no idea that Doug had passed. It is very sad that such a genuinely kind person is lost from this world. It was a pleasure to watch Doug on the show, and also inspiring to see a human being achieve such a level enlightenment in one short lifetime.

posted at April 25, 2007 12:37 AM

Ina wrote:

Hi Jesse,
I'm so sorry to find out that it is true that Doug has passed away in January. I have recently started to watch your show and Doug seemed one wonderful genuine human beeing and I could not believed when I read " in memory of Doug". This is the reason that I went to Bravo.com.
I loved what you wrote about Doug,well said!

posted at April 25, 2007 12:38 AM

Kelly wrote:

Jesse - you are an honorable man...not only for loving doug in life but also for remembering him so lovingly in death. love you darlin'

posted at April 25, 2007 08:40 AM

Julie wrote:

I am SO SO sorry to learn of Dougs passing. I did not know him, but as a huge fan of Workout on Bravo, I saw how genuine he was to his friends and clients. I cant imagine the grief everyone is in that knew him. I am praying for everyone, friends and family. May you all carry on and may you all find peace and strength in one another.

God Bless you all,

Julie

posted at April 25, 2007 12:40 PM

Campbell wrote:

Jesse, what a wonderful eulogy. I was so saddened to hear of Doug's death. He was gentle and kind and an inspiration to others.

My heart goes out to you and your castmates from Workout, as well as to Doug's family and his many friends. My prayers are with you all.

Goodbye Doug. Thanks for bringing some genuine and loving moments to the world.

Campbell

posted at April 25, 2007 02:36 PM

Cecilia Arellano wrote:

Jesse, as a viewer/fan of Workout I just found out of Doug's death and I was so saddened until I came cross the BEAUTIFUL words you wrote and how Doug touched you and made you a better person. You now have touched me and I will also become a better person. God bless you all at Workout.
A true fan, Cecilia.

posted at April 25, 2007 06:10 PM

Terri Sinclair wrote:

I'm completely blown away by Dougs death. I remember hearing on the show about how young his entire family was when they died. Having lost my best friend I have an idea of what you are at times feeling. It's taken me years to recover. I'm happy you kept the episodes in the second season so we could all remember Doug in our own way and say "good bye" to him too. Thanks for that. I'm so sorry for you. I really am.

posted at April 26, 2007 01:00 AM

Terri Sinclair wrote:

PS I just signed up for a personal trainer a few weeks ago and before I knew what happened to Doug was telling my new trainer about the conversation Doug had with his new client about being her best friend and how he'd stick by her. It was so inspiring to me it made me get into action to lose the 50 pounds I've been carrying around for too long. Even in his death, Doug was inspirational - again, thanks for keeping those episodes in. My life may be longer for it.

posted at April 26, 2007 01:03 AM

Laura wrote:

I am so full of sorrow to learn of Doug's passing...I'm a big fan of the show and I had a sinking feeling based on the preview of next week's episode and alas, Doug has died.
WHAT ABOUT CHO???? I was astonished at the intensity of love and emotion between the two of them. I know I don't know Cho and I never met Doug but I just want Cho and Doug's family to know that a strange woman across the miles is praying for you and thinking of you and your incredible loss.

posted at April 26, 2007 02:45 AM

Billie wrote:

I'm always the last to know... I just find out of Doug's passing:( I'm so sad & my heart aches deeply. This man was so full of spirit & energy not to mention a smile that could light up any room! He is now resting with the angels above looking over us all - We love & miss you Doug!
Hugs & many blessings to all the trainers @ Sky, Doug's Family & anyone that Doug ever made an impact on, Bless you all!

~Billie~

posted at April 26, 2007 12:22 PM

Wendy:-) wrote:

I am so sad about Dougs death and the loss you all, as his friends, are suffering. I understand how that feels, I've lost most of my family, many, many friends!!!! Some things you never get over, but with time, love and friendship,the heavy pain will lift and you'll all be able to continue your life and go on. The pain and his love will always be there in a bitter-sweet way. He'd want his friends to live and be happy! My prayers are with you all!!!!

posted at April 26, 2007 02:02 PM

Trent wrote:

How come no one has said why he got sick and died?

posted at April 26, 2007 02:40 PM

Susan B wrote:

I only knew Doug through his apperance on "Work Out" but his goodnes, thoughtfulness,kindness, honesty and compassion was apparent! They say that the camera doesn't lie and that only the good die young. Whoever they are, they got it right! I will miss him and I didn't personally know him. I can't imagine the loss to those you knew and loved him. My huband suddenly passed sway at 43 so I know how losing someone suddenly leaves you stunned, asking why and feeling lost and alone. I send my condolences to his friends, fans and family. I can't help crying when I think of Doug because I will miss him.Doug was an inspiration to so many people and he will be missed.My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jesse and to all who loved him. Susan B. Georgia

posted at April 26, 2007 03:29 PM

Ken wrote:

Eventhough we only knew of Doug Blasdell through a tv set, I hope that I speak for all, when I saw that he was a true gentleman and collegue. To all of the workout trainers and friends, may you continue to push through as Doug would expect. Your show has been an inspiration to myself and my circle of friends. Take care and much gratitude for not forgetting Doug. Best to you Jesse and the rest of the gang in LA. Ken and many, many others.

posted at April 29, 2007 06:40 PM

Arturo "Sam" Hernandez wrote:

Doug:

You touched us all and you will always be in our hearts.

Sam Hernandez

posted at April 30, 2007 02:15 AM

tina wrote:

I was so sad to see the previews for work out I missed last tuesday show my friend told me and I did not believe her, then I saw the preview of this week show and I can not stop CRYING.What a wonderful person he was kind and compassion
and you could tell he cared so much for everyone.what wonderful person he was. You can tell he totally inspired everyone in his path Eventhough I only knew of Doug Blasdell from the tv show I felt like I truly lost a friend.I send my condolences to his friends, family and fans.GOD BLESS YOU DOUG YOU WILL SURELY MISSED.

posted at April 30, 2007 08:44 PM

Dennis wrote:

As I viewed the preview from last week's episode, I was stunned about what was to come. I immediately logged on to Bravo's website and found out about Doug's untimely passing back in January. As with most fans of Doug and the show, my heart was filled with sorrow and grief. Doug seemed like such a level-headed, genuinely nice guy. He appeared to be such an inspiration to his clients but I have taken it upon myself to use him as an inspiration in my workout and eating habits. When I lack the desire to go to the gym or tempted by a high calorie, fat-laden nutritionally deficiently meal, I ask myself that if I was Doug's client, what would Doug say. That really is all the motivation I need to get my ass to the gym or opt for a healthier meal. Doug, you look down on us from heaven and you continue to inspire us. You are and will always be missed.

posted at May 1, 2007 02:07 AM

Delia wrote:

I found out just now as I started watching Work Out Marathon on Bravo and they dedicated the season to Doug. Doug, I never met you but you had such charisma and sincerity that extended far beyond a television screen. You left the earth one month before my Grandpa so I know you are surrounded by wonderful people in that beautiful place we here on earth call Heaven. I can't help but cry for your family's lose, your friends lose, Jackie's lose and me, the viewer's, lose. You Will Be Greatly Missed. Rest In Peace.

posted at May 1, 2007 04:13 PM

Jennifer wrote:

I'm soooo sorry to hear about Doug. When the commercial for the show came on about it I went to tears hearing that it happened. I couldn't believe that he did die. I am really sorry for your loss.

posted at May 1, 2007 06:01 PM

Tonte wrote:

I cant believe it Doug is gone ....Lord have mercy ...may his precious soul rest in peace...He was so sentitive and kind to the fat girl he was training .. I wonder how she took the news of his death !!

Life is full of surprises ...and he knew that was gonna be his last birthday !!

posted at May 2, 2007 12:12 AM

erica berglund wrote:

i would like to say DOUG BLASDELL, from what we learned about him watching him on workout, seemed like a very kind,gentle soul. How could workout not leave fans of the show more of a tribute. Is Jackie really that vain? This man DESERVED more of a send off. Erica Berglund

posted at May 2, 2007 12:32 AM

mario wrote:

I was amazed about Doug Blasdell's death...Doug was such an example of strength amongst adversity. Ofourse his status was not the focus of who he was or the show, however, he truly has served as an example of Strengh when your faced with something that could be life debilitating in so many ways. When viewed on Workout, he seemed so full of life and stress free. I hope that many people facing adversity can take his life as an example and live everday to the fullest.

posted at May 3, 2007 07:49 AM

cindy wrote:

Doug was fun fun funny, din't he not want to celebrate his recent birthday because both his parents passed at that age he was becoming?
Then the show aired his birthday, all was fine, next thing boom Dooug's sick, somehting regarding kidneys and dialysis. Is there something educational the show could inform us about???? Why such a healthy wonderful person suddenly, (so it seemed)becomes seriously ill and passes on?!

posted at May 3, 2007 11:29 AM

Lisa Lewellyn wrote:

Jesse -

What a wonderful gift that you and Doug were able to patch up your differences long before this tragedy. It was obvious that the loss of the two of yours commorodity was a very painful experience for him, as well as you. Thank God for his mercy that you were the one that extended your hand in forgiveness and expressed desire to rebuild the relationship and friendshipt that y'all once shared. You had no way of knowing that Doug's time was limited therefore, the olive brance you extended was done from the heart, not in a hospital room during a time of a medical crisis or worse yet, at a funneral. Though this is a tough time for you, do not get caught up in the past problems between you and Doug, as you, like a man, stepped up to the plate and out of your love for Doug as a human being, was willing to extend forgiveness and therefore allow healing. Don't let anything steal that from you. It is easy during times like these to go back in time and blame yourself or feel like what if I had not done this or done this, or reacted a certain way due to a betrayel that you felt. Don't do that. You made ammends when as far as you and everyone else knew there was no urgent reason to do so. That speaks volumes. Brothers fight Jesse. Sometimes brothers fight for a long time, But brothers make up and stick together and in the end that is what you did. Focus on that. Thank God for giving you the desire to reconcille, for softening your heart, and allowing you the time to rectify the situation between you and Doug. Especially in light of the fact that God knew the time was at hand, you did not - but you acted. Focus on that Jesse. Thank God for it. If not, you would be plagued with regrets and guilt. That of which, if you are dealing with that, get rid of it, as you do not have anything to regret. Doug appeared to be totally devestated and on a daily deal with it during the time when y'all had your disagreement. For you to come to him and forgive him and extend your hand meant more to him then you might realize.

My prayers go out to all, especially you as I sense that you might be going through a difficult time. Hang in there. For yourself, and for Doug. If I can say one thing for you to take away with you - No regrets. You have no regrets.

posted at May 5, 2007 04:27 PM

Elizabeth wrote:

This is so, so tragic. I wish with all my heart that this had never happened. Doug was so sweet and funny, this is so unfair. I hope the show keeps Doug a part of the gym, even though he is now gone.

posted at May 5, 2007 09:12 PM

vikram wrote:

I am just devastated and blown away. To be honest I do not watch a lot of TV and the only time i do is while I am on the treadmill and workout which is how i got hooked onto the show and to the charming person Doug was. I feel badly about learning about Doug's passing away just now. He was a role model for me as an openly gay man who lived his life as an individual who practically radiated joy with his warmth. I feel like i have lost a friend.
Jesse - my heartfelt condolences to you and to all of Doug's family (which includes all his well wishers). I am POSITIVE he is happy wherever he is as good things happen to good people and Doug came across as an exceptional human being who touched our hearts. My workouts will never be the same for me again ever.

posted at May 7, 2007 01:29 AM

Megan Thiel wrote:

I wish I would have been able to meet Doug. I have watched the show since day one. Doug is an amazing person with so much dignity and grace. I want to be a better person because of him. It's tragic that he had to pass at such a young age. Brian's story about the hummingbird REALLY got to me and I believe that Doug is around each and every life that he touched. I pray for his family and friends and loved ones who have lost such an amazing person.

posted at May 8, 2007 10:30 PM

larry giuffrida wrote:

Doug- I hate to ask but can I be removed from Jesse's blog. I have not come out to family members and when you look up my last name I come up and open up Pandora's Box. Sorry I have to ask. Doug will be missed. I loved the show when your childhood friend sings the national anthem. She is hot and can really belt a tune. Thanks again for understanding.

posted at May 9, 2007 04:59 AM

Shane wrote:

I think Doug impacted every single persons life that has ever watched the show. He touched my life and I know he was on the show for a reason....I wish I could have met that guy...

posted at May 9, 2007 08:26 AM

jessica wrote:

My deepest thoughts are withwith you all as i have set back for many weeks and watched your show. Nothing could have made some ready for this. Doug was my favorite trainer to watch on the show........next to jackie. when america got the news of Dougs passing it not only a state of shock for you'll, but those who watch are deeply touched. my love and thoughts are with all of you. Jessie please keep your head up. Remember he is looking down on you, think of him as your guardening angel.

love and kisses,
jessica from ga

posted at May 11, 2007 09:21 AM

lee wrote:

Jesse,I just found out about the untimely passing of doug.I never met him,but he was one of the reasons that i watched the show.As i sit here typing with tears in my eyes,one can only imagine how every one at skysport was affected by this event.My heart is broken.He was a role model for everyone,not just gay men.He will be greatly missed.

posted at May 15, 2007 09:12 AM

alan duvall wrote:

well jesse I am glad you and doug had time to get things between you on the right road. doug was truly a role modle for other gay men myself encluded I really dont think anyone will ever know how many people he touched. good luck with everything alan

posted at May 16, 2007 12:31 AM

Dominic Beaulieu wrote:

My brother passed 11 years ago. Doug really reminded me of him. I wish I could remember my brothers daily rules to live by but I think they were along the lines of Doug's. My brother had a thing for humming birds as well. One memory that I will cherish is watching him, standing at the kitchen window, just looking. By this time his illness had made him weak and dimentia was making him mentally crippled. He was a shadow of his former self. He stood looking out the window and suddenly a hummingbird appeared. His eye's lit up and he excitedly pointed at it. He looked at me and said 'Look'! For a brief moment I had my brother back and it felt like we were children again. I miss him and I share your loss.

posted at May 16, 2007 12:30 PM

DORO wrote:

I AM A 55 YR OLD GRANNY AND FELL IN LOVE WITH DOUG RIGHT FROM THE START!!! I DONT GET TO WATCH TO MUCH T.V BUT TRIED TO WATCH WORKOUT JUST TO TO WATCH AND LISTEN TO DOUG! I AM IN DESPAIR OVER HIS DEATH. MY HUSBAND AND FAMILY CANT BELIEVE THAT I HAD SUCH A FANCINATION WITH THIS MAN...WELL.... MAYBE IF MORE PPL WOULD BE OPEN MINDED TO '''REAL LOVE''' THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND. I AM TRULY SADDENED BUT I WILL FOREVER HOLD IN MY MIND HEART AND SOUL THIS WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING.

posted at May 17, 2007 07:59 PM

Jeff Turkali wrote:

I have never watched the Workout show, but I did have Doug as my trainer back in 1992 to 1995. And I would later often see him around town and at the gym, we stayed friendly. It's true what everyone has said, Doug was a gentle soul and beautiful person. I agree that he was a (my) role model, and I'm glad I got to tell him so when I had the chance. He made me love going to the gym and he worked me out harder than I have ever worked out. I believe that the gains I made with Doug's direction and guidance are still a part of me. Before my legs were knobby knees and stick calves, and when Doug got through with them they looked like Doug's legs. He told me once that I had more potential than he had because I was taller and better proportioned. Can you imagine someone like Doug telling you that? He was just so inspiring to be around even when not working out with him. He once asked me for a ride home after we worked out. And he invited me in to have lunch when we got there. I was a client really, but was treated like a friend. Once I lost 30 pounds and I felt like I looked pretty good, Doug told me (in his kind way of course) no, that I did not look as good as I should and that I needed to lose another 10lbs. He is the only person that could say that and not make me feel bad. Another time I ran into him when he was coming into Gold's gym and he asked me if I had extra batteries for his walkman. I had them and gave them to him. For a couple of years later I kept reminding him about those batteries he owed me....but it was all in fun. I think he was "meant to be" one of the stars of this show so that the rest of America (and the world) could appreciate what he had to offer all of us. And now because of the show - he will live forever. I am going to work REALLY HARD to get back into the condition I was in when I had Doug's positive force working for and with me. I'll try to always keep some of that with me when I work out. I still do the same routine(s) he showed me over ten years ago. While there is a big empty gap in us since he has passed, I do like that he became well known beyond the local fitness scene, and is a part of something much much larger now with Workout. But it still hurts to know I will not be running into him ever again.

posted at May 31, 2007 01:44 AM

Rosie wrote:

Jesse, i am so saddened by the loss of Doug. I started watching the show from the beginning and am a big fan of it. I think all of you are great, a little crazy sometimes but i still enjoy the show. Doug was just a beautiful person, on the birthday episode where he said he didn't like birthday's anymore he looked so sad. I know he said his family didn't live past the 40's and that scared him. It's funny but he knew something was coming up. He was prepared i just can't believe he's gone. He is and always will be a beautiful person and i hope he can hear me and help me with his spirit to take better care of myself and lose the weight that i have always dreamed of losing but just can't push myself hard enough to try. Take care Jesse and i'm so glad you and Doug made up, i know it's a hard thing to do. To let bygones be bygones, but i'm so happy you guys did (Doug's persistent paid off). He did love you very much and it showed, he'll always be with you and your friends. Take care Jesse, i will always miss Doug!! (I too feel like as if i knew him personally) God be with you all! (oh and Jackie you are so good if i had you at my home for a couple of months i know you would kick my derriere and make me feel better about myself!!)

posted at June 29, 2007 10:50 AM

Chris Chase wrote:

Jesse:

It will probably be hard for you and your friends/co-workers to believe that it has been a whole year since Doug's passing, but I am only NOW getting into "Workout" thanks to reruns and the start of Season Three. I had heard of the show and even read news about Doug's death, but none of it really registered with me at the time, since I wasn't watching the show.

I watched the Bravo WORKOUT marathon the day of Season Three's premiere. I missed most of Season One, but only having seen a few episodes of that season and most of Season Two, Doug's inner and outer beauty hit me like a lightning bolt. I knew it would be hard to keep it together when the announcement came, but I didn't expect how hard it would be to take, even knowing in advance. I don't think seeing BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN made me cry that hard.

For lack of a better way to put this, it's almost as if Doug were an angel who got to stay here on Earth with us by accident. Or maybe not...there are too few people like him, who have the ability to move you and affect you without even getting to know them personally.

I used to be well over 100 lbs. overweight, and through determination, consistency and a lot of hard work, I lost just over 77 lbs. in just about six months. I had some great people to help me on my journey, and now I wish that Doug had been one of them. I think he would've made the rough times a whole lot easier to bear.

I am completely addicted to WORKOUT now, and feel like I've come to know you, Jackie, Zen, Erika, Brian and everyone else so well. But the best thing about this show is that in spite of the tragic circumstances, people will continue to experience at least a small part of Doug's beautiful smile and sweet spirit thanks to reruns, and I hope he continues to remind people about what's most important in life, the same way he's done for me.

And thanks for your beautiful tribute to him. Truer words...

posted at April 16, 2008 08:52 PM

Anne wrote:

I too am just starting to watch Workout for the first time and the first episode I saw was the one in which Doug dies.

Then Bravo aired a marathon from earlier in the season in which Skylab is formed and Doug meets with his client for the first time. I thought he was very inspiring in what he said to her and how he said it. I'd like to know what becomes of her because, if I'd been his client, I think I would've gone all out to get in killer shape and live up to the hope he inspired in me.

He's definitely one of those angels among us. I wish I could've seen much more of him.

posted at April 20, 2008 09:10 PM