anthony wrote:

I know how you feel jesse! I love food but it's hard to say no!!

posted at March 21, 2007 12:21 AM

Glenn wrote:

Hey Jesse,
You are beautiful inside and out. I love your sense of humor, and it is nice to see a trainer who knows their stuff, but does not have to have the buff body to prove it. You are great just the way you are. I live up in Santa Cruz...orig from the Midwest, and I hope your life in CA is going well. CA is a very different experience for me than I anticipated and I have lived here since '94. I love the program Workout, its my soap opera of choice, but mostly, I enjoy the genuinness you bring to the show!!

posted at March 21, 2007 03:10 AM

Michael Wilson wrote:

OMG!! You are so not fat! You look amazing! Its because of you I started working out! Thank you so much! People in life have their role models...you are mine! Thanks once again! Oh...by the way...Congratulations on your graduation!

posted at March 21, 2007 04:48 AM

DJ Jayson B wrote:

Hey Sugg,

Ok, "gay fat" WTF? Ghurl please! As 36 y/o gay man who used to weigh 160lbs, I'm here to tell ya it's just fat. Now don't get me wrong my lil sugar bottom, you're cute as the day is long and I'd never kick ya outta bed but honey bunz it's time to hit the cardo and put down the pastries!

Bless your little rainbow heart though for showing the whole big world your lil luv pillow on national TV. I think I woulda had to strangle me some Jackie W. if she had made me take my shirt off infront of cameras while I was in my plus sized stage of life.

Mucho Grandre Amor from Austin TX!
B~

posted at March 21, 2007 07:04 AM

Darlene wheeler wrote:

Jesse, I think your great.I know how you feel with your friendship with Jackie. Just keep yourself healthy and a really swell person. Darlene

posted at March 21, 2007 08:27 AM

Anonymous wrote:

What happened to Doug. Why is the season opener dedicated to him?

posted at March 21, 2007 08:36 AM

Ruth wrote:

I really loved you Jesse when Jackie hired you last season as the "new trainer" and even felt sorry for you for what the "gang" (mainly Brian) put you through with the initiation and what you had to endure when you were house sitting for Jackie. After watching the first episode of the second season and now knowing that Doug passed away made me upset for watching the bickering that I think you made a big deal about. After reading your blog I appreciate what you said about it being trivial. I look forward to watching more of you on the show. Peace.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:34 AM

Martin wrote:

Jessie, totally agree with your POV regarding gay's attitudes toward one another. It would be a much better world if we had each other's backs like other minorities seem to do for one another. Such charisma! Go get em Tiger.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:39 AM

Terri wrote:

Why is this season of Workout dedicated to Doug? Did something happen? Please lets us know.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:44 AM

Luette Berbena wrote:

Jesse, you are adorable, but your little body looked so out of shape when you were running on the beach. I don't want to embarrass you, but you really looked kind of dorky in that clip! you are still precious but pull it together darlin
also, yes you remind me of 'Just Jack' as well. But why do you find that to be a critical statement? He's adored by many many people.You should of said thank you. Talk about discriminating in your own community.
Your showed to be a little hypocritical there. You better come down a little from that high horse you must be riding kiddo! At this point, you can only hope to become as beloved as Jack is. Whoa boy.

posted at March 21, 2007 10:21 AM

Quanda wrote:

Hi Jesse. Love the show and loved the premiere. I am extremely saddened to find out about Doug Blasdell's passing. He was truly an inspiration and an awesome trainer. I really hope that you were able to make ammends with him before he died. I honestly believed that he meant no harm toward you in his interview and he even apologized to you for any harm it may have caused. I think a lesson can be learned by all of the viewers; holding grudges or seeking revenge is never worth it. Life is precious and friendships are priceless. Thanks so much for your blog and perspective from the show. I'll keep watching :).

posted at March 21, 2007 10:42 AM

Luette Berbena wrote:

What does Jackie see in MiMI? My God, what a totally nasty, selfish, classless, homely little chick. Jackie is such a contrast of Mimi. She 'is' a beautiful, intelligent, compassionate, classy woman. I become so emotionally protective of Jackie when she's around, that uncivilized female. I just want to kick her ass! And, she has the ugliest mouth for a woman! Was she a feral child by any chance? Her biting, snapping ,& emotionally deficiant ways could really sugest she had been. When I saw the previews of Jackie with Rebecca, I am so routing for them at this point.
All pettiness aside, I am so glad you all chose to do another season. I'm truly looking forward to the next few months of episodes.
Also, I did notice that this season was dedicated in memory of Doug. I was hoping so much that it was not true what I had seen yet actually knew in my heart it was.
A few years ago I lost my only child and husband. I am very familiar with the pain of loss. In the first segment I could only focus on what you all must be going through at this time. I am so sorry for all of you and share in some of your pain. How emotionally difficult the airing of this season must be for you all.I am finding the need to block it out somewhat so I am able to stay with the episode. This is in no way of disrespect, just necessary of concentration. I mention this so you know why I did not make mention of this first. I want so badly to know what happened & what occured. I assume more will be known in time. As myself, I am sure other viewers are feeling your pain.
It has already made me feel a special closeness
to you all, without having to know you. Strength and God be with you all.

posted at March 21, 2007 11:01 AM

Alan Kingsley wrote:

For me personally as a gay male, I see both of you as role models. There is this grand scale in the gay world, and one is always better then the other, but we are all the same, we all are facing the same discrimination in this place we call home. I think everyone in the gym is amazing! You give me hope for this discilet place in Minnesota! Thanks for making it worth while! :D

posted at March 21, 2007 11:16 AM

dave wrote:

what happened to doug ?

posted at March 21, 2007 11:18 AM

Suzanne wrote:

Jesse
I like you, but you do have to get in shape if you want to have your clients take it seriously.
good luck

posted at March 21, 2007 11:34 AM

Yolanda wrote:

Yes Jesse is a little chubby which is not a good image for his career. Why in the hell is Jackie still wasting her time with Mimi....she looks like a freaking dog in the face. Trust me Jackie, the sex can be mindblowing with someone else. Get rid of her, she means you no good!!! Mother's always know best

posted at March 21, 2007 11:42 AM

Dave wrote:

Hey Jesse...
MAN U R NOT FAT ! ! !
So you may have a little chub...who doesn't....you are a personal trainer, I am sure you could burn that off in a second....
I am looking forward to the second season of WORK OUT...I really enjoyed the first season...especially when you got reamed by Jackie for having the party at her house while she was in Palm Springs.....can't wait to see what happens this season. Keep your sense of humor my friend....
Sincerely,
Dave
Cococa, FL

posted at March 21, 2007 12:17 PM

Christopher wrote:

Jesse, I see nothing wrong with the way you look. I personally like a guy with a little meat on his bones. I would let you cook for me anytime. If I'm ever in the LA area, I'm looking you up and taking you out on a date! You're wicked hott!

posted at March 21, 2007 01:06 PM

Creighton wrote:

Jesse

Don't let them get to you. Your not Fat they are just to skinny. Bravo needs to give you your own cooking show so we can check out your culinary skills.

Cheers

posted at March 21, 2007 01:26 PM

steven, LA wrote:

Jackie-get over Mimi. She is toxic. Saw her at the Standard rooftop pool drunk and being such a loser. I love to drink but for her to be putting her cigs out on the ground and being so loud was just no right. She is low class and too much drama.

posted at March 21, 2007 02:36 PM

christine wrote:

It is an unfortunate lesson to learn.. Words do impact people. Many times words hurt more than actual physical pain.
I really hope that what happened between you and Doug was resolved prior to his passing. It would be awful to have to go through life with that guilt. I hope that you saw that the whole thing was meant as a compliment to you and not an insult.
As a straight married woman who watches Will and Grace every night. Every woman I know would have loved to have had a male friend like Jack. Funny, handsome and gay. A man who would go shopping to us or to the salon or out for dinner. A friend who would always be open and honest with us but would say and do it with grace....
Don't take it as an insult..

posted at March 21, 2007 02:45 PM

shawn wrote:

Jackie, I've been in the fitness industry over 10 years. If one of my employee's walked in looking like Jessie it would only be to pick up his last check. You're suppose to be setting a example for your clients, what's wrong with you. Insted of trying to be his best friend, try being his boss and make him get into shape. Every business person know's the number one rule. Never ever get involved with your employee's.

posted at March 21, 2007 04:01 PM

Rhaya wrote:

Dan and I really enjoyed watching your first episode last night on my birthday. Hope to see you back in discilet Minnesota

posted at March 21, 2007 04:35 PM

GH wrote:

Jesse,
I think you look Perfect and Fabulous! Obviously you are healthy and fit. So what if you have a few extra pounds--just more of you to LOVE! I think you're the most real person on the show! Love your blog, love your body and love your personality! Keep Rockin!

posted at March 21, 2007 04:35 PM

Eric wrote:

I want to thank you and the gang for being an
inspiration to me...! I used to weigh 310lbs
I have lost over the year 100lbs. I watch the show and I am encouraged keep up with my workouts.
Thank You everyone for helping someone like me
who had lost all hope of being cute again.
On another note I will miss you Doug, you and
Jackie are my inspiration...

posted at March 21, 2007 06:07 PM

Mark wrote:

Jesse!!
YOUR fat ass needs a trainer seriously. If you were a Bartender would you be drunk all day?? I mean it would be like Bobby Flay training me. BTW, love the show.

posted at March 21, 2007 07:14 PM

maya wrote:

I also hope you and Doug put your differences aside before he passed away. In last night's episode you seemed to be hanging on to your anger and we're all guilty of that so I'm not judging but it taught me a lesson about holding grudges.
I hope we saw the last of Mimi. Jackie deserves so much better.

posted at March 21, 2007 07:45 PM

Melanie wrote:

Tell Jackie, Melanie said, you may be fat (well not really), but you are the best looking one on the show! Ha! Also, I loved your tip, just show up.

posted at March 21, 2007 07:46 PM

Melanie wrote:

O.K. Erika is pretty good looking too.

posted at March 21, 2007 08:01 PM

monique wrote:

Jesse,
I understand how you feel but I have to tell you that you still look fabulous.

posted at March 21, 2007 08:01 PM

Jesse wrote:

Don't you dare lose any weight. Your as hot as a hottie can be.

posted at March 21, 2007 08:48 PM

Pam wrote:

I am so saddened by Doug's death; though I never had the chance to meet him, he felt like a friend. I know a lot of wonderful people greeted him in Heaven. We seem to need constant reminders to keep our priorities in focus and treat others with love and respect.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:23 PM

J wrote:

Who cares about a few extra pounds. You're cute anyways :) Too bad you're not straight!

posted at March 21, 2007 09:33 PM

Erik wrote:

Jesse...love the show and so sad to hear about Doug. After watching the show last night, I have to agree with Doug on his comment about your being like "Jack". Well, sort of. What we've seen of you is quirky, campy, jokey, not really focused on training, gossipy, and kind of immature. So you have been acting like the "Jack" to Jackie's "Will". Maybe you had a more masculine image of yourself in your mind that TV has shattered. In any case, there are always going to be divisions among the gay community because there are just so many variations to the spectrum. Maybe that is your valuation scale, because there are many drag queens that would disagree with your placing them on the bottom of your "relevance scale". Any gay role models put out there are positive, whether they be manly or campy.

posted at March 21, 2007 09:54 PM

JC wrote:

Hey, why South America? I am from South America and we do not hide from anyone! You have to be careful with what you say and walk the talk....

Maybe it is time for you to think before you speak/type...

posted at March 21, 2007 10:07 PM

Lisa wrote:

I love this show. All the trainers are awesome in their own way and that's why the club does well. There is a personality for every client. I do think Jesse needs to tighten up a bit. Jackie, be real with him and lay out the truth rather than being the friend. You're his boss and he is a reflection on your club. Don't be a wiseass but do what you can to help him out. Giving him crap just makes him defensive. Also, I SO hope that Jesse and Doug worked out their differences before he passed. Life is short and you need to treasure the people in your life. His passing was shocking and watching him during Season 2 is tough, but hopefully as the season moves on, we will see this feud subside.

posted at March 21, 2007 10:56 PM

Toya wrote:

Jesse just watched the first episode. Loved It !! your not fat at all, you still look the same from high school..Let me know when your coming to town I need some major work out help and motivation. Not to mention a few healthy cooking tips.. TTYL

posted at March 21, 2007 11:14 PM

Ken Nau, BSPEd, MS wrote:

Jesse, such a beautiful man... not fat, but a little poochy. I wish I could watch you while you are cooking and we could sample your cooking together. I bet it is awesome. I've been lifting heavy and trying to eat all the time to gain weight and gained 15 pounds this year... but I can't seem to gain anymore. You are handsome and would look awesome turning that little pooch into beefier boi! Here is to the best for your future! Ken

posted at March 22, 2007 12:14 AM

Mark Madrak wrote:

Jesse,
I watched the first episode last night. It makes me sad that every time I see Doug on the screen it is in the past and he is no longer alive. Despite the little bit of internalized homophobia he expressed in that interview, i and you know that he loved you dearly. I can't imagine what the staff of Sky went through when Doug passed. I'm sure it took a long time to come back from such a blow. I give you all credit for being able to carry on in the face of such sadness.

PS. Mimi is such a beotch, Jackie needs to get a grip and move on, and not with Rebecca who is classic 'bi-curiuous', with a real woman who loves her for all she is.

posted at March 22, 2007 01:06 AM

Kathy wrote:

I hope that the thing between you and Doug was taken care of before he passed... I also hope that you watch the show to hear what he said about Will and Grace and how it was his favorite show and dumb butt was his favorite character, which meant he really liked you. If you have not seen that show WATCH IT!!!! As for you being FAT... I understand that you are a chef (congrats..), but you are also a trainer... you must figure out what is more important to you...training or eating... if you say both, i get that two, but you must fight with the food and know that as a trainer you have to eat better. Fix healthy food, and don't eat after 6. Stay real to yourself

posted at March 22, 2007 01:19 AM

Peter Gard wrote:

Jesse,

I'll just get to the point and tell you how awesome it was to hear you say that (until Jackie) you had never felt fat. It is important to me to see not-anorexic-thin gay men who aren't obsessed with their weight. A lot of us struggle with this constantly and for little reason.

I also wanted to stress how eloquently I thought you expressed your ideas when contronted with the Doug issue over cocktails. Personally, I've always thought that being self-concious about being a femme gay is even worse than being self-concious about acting gay in the first place, for so many reasons. God, I'd love to pick your brain on this topic for hours, just based on the bit you touched on during your dialogues on the show.

Anyway, I hope you're well, and you've gained a new fan this week. Continue feeling proud and confident, because you have every reason to!

posted at March 22, 2007 01:59 AM

Zachare' Rogue Daugharty wrote:

This has NOTHING to do with ANYTHING...but I thought it was cool to see you are from Renton Washingt. I live there now and was thinking there was NOONE gay here...now I know they simply moved :-) Oh and if you need a gym partner call me.

posted at March 22, 2007 02:19 AM

Melissa wrote:

So sorry to hear of Doug's passing. He was such a good man. You both set excellent samples for not only the gay community but the heterosexual community as well.

posted at March 22, 2007 02:53 AM

Chris M wrote:

Hey Jesse you are so cute and sexy and i think that the extra couple pounds look good on you, and i will pay you 500 dollars a day if you come to delaware and train me

posted at March 22, 2007 02:56 AM

Christopher wrote:

hey jesse,
i love to watch work out just to see u.. haha i know dumb.. but really u are not fat, just run a little bit and trow up when i get done eating. thats what i do.

posted at March 22, 2007 07:57 AM

Rick wrote:

For those not in the know - http://www.glaad.org/eye/DougBlasdell.php

posted at March 22, 2007 10:10 AM

Mara wrote:

Jess'
I love you and dig your vibe, but you do have to get toned again. Otherwise, the show loses credibility. You are one of the top trainers if you can't achieve it then it comes off as unachieveable. You do not have to be a muscle head just a little more toned. I think a lot of people relate to you because we don't all want to be 4% fat we just want to be toned like a normal person not a tri-athlete. come on Jesse! a little less celebrity cocktails.

posted at March 22, 2007 11:01 AM

D wrote:

Jesse,
Don't get so down on yourself. It only shows that you are human too! Too much emphasis is placed on the "skinny" bods on TV these days. I believe you can be in shape and fit and still need to work on or watch some areas...we all do! Nobody is perfect! You are awesome and adorable! If I wasn't a lesbian, you'd be the icing on the cake for me! Until then, I'll have to dream about meeting Jackie! I think she needs a good, sweet, down to earth gal from the midwest! ;)

posted at March 22, 2007 12:14 PM

jake wrote:

Jesse baby, I think you are sexy as ever and that little extra weight is adorable on you. I'm in LA, let's go have dinner and I can rub your tummy ;)

posted at March 22, 2007 01:50 PM

Jennjan3 wrote:

I was so sad to hear of Dougs' passing. He was one of my favorites. He had such a great soul. I too hope you made piece with him. He didn't mean anything derogatory towards you at all. Jesse you had top make drama when none was needed. STOP talking about everyone else and do your job.

posted at March 22, 2007 01:50 PM

Tiffany wrote:

Jesse,

After watching the episode, you and Doug's tiff really opened my eyes to some things. Like you, I am one to hold grudges. I've been like this my whole life, but it's not good to hold so much anger inside over something so trivial. Life is too short and this episode proved that. I'm really going to make a conscious effort to let things go.

posted at March 22, 2007 03:06 PM

Alejandra wrote:

Jesse,
I think you are fun to be around, but sometimes you seem kind of bitchi. Anyway, you have a super hot boss. Be good to her.
Bring her down to Puerto Rico so I can show her what a good latina is all about.
Sweetie, I understand that you are a chef, but you do need to cut on the carbohidrates, sodium, sugars and all that good stuff. You have a cute face. You just need to tone up a little that belly of yours. That's not too sexy. You CAN do it!!!

Wish you good luck!

Ale

posted at March 22, 2007 03:57 PM

Matthew wrote:

I am sad about Dougs' passing. I enjoy watching the show, but after hearing that most of the show is staged, it doesn't make me happy. I have heard this on several occasions. I totally understand that "Reality" shows they are a little scripted, but this one takes the prize. This information that I received on the show isn't gossip, but heard from sources that are on the show. If Jackie is this big gym owner, then why was she working out at 24hr Fitness in Hollywood prior to the premier of Season One? If I had all this money I wouldn't be seen in that gym, but maybe a gym of higher caliber like Equinox. I would love to go to "Sport" and see if it really excist. My final word... And why is it that jsut about every scene we see Jackie in, that isn't in the gym, she has an alcoholic drink in her hand? Count the number of times in one episode she is drinking. That is a good positive role model. I will keep on watching the drama of the show, but knowing it is mostly fake.

posted at March 22, 2007 08:08 PM

Chip wrote:

Jesse,

You're hot fat or skinny. I would love to meet you...if you ever come to Chicago.

posted at March 22, 2007 11:05 PM

cher wrote:

jesse, you were very rude to Doug and I hope that you made some kind of peace with him before he passed. You totally over reacted to the "Jack" comment....it was a compliment moron.

posted at March 22, 2007 11:11 PM

Luis wrote:

Jesse,
You have a great personality and I think you are cute no matter what. There is nothing wrong with someone who isnt perfect. Id hold you all night.

posted at March 23, 2007 12:18 AM

jake wrote:

oh my...most gays i know work out. especially those in the pubic eye...what's going on with you sweetie?

posted at March 23, 2007 02:12 AM

tsin chansu wrote:

hi jesse,

you are a hottie, although it is kinda ironic for a trainer to be out of shape but then again you're not the only one since I've personally seen trainers here in the washington dc area who are on the chubby side.you definitely have the personality and the sense of humor to offer your clients though so it's still all good!

posted at March 23, 2007 10:00 AM

Michael wrote:

First off, I love the show and am glad that I have a whole second season to watch this year! I feel really sorry for Jackie--sometimes I think she doesn't want to let go of Mimi because it might be admitting failure. DON'T think this way, Jackie girl! You deserve to be happy. Jesse, you need to realize that Brian set you up for that argument over cocktails with Doug. He likes to stir up trouble, and you just let him control you, dude. I hope that closet case leaves Sky this year, and I hope he rides out on one of Jackie's pointy-toed boots! Love all of you (especially Jesse, who needs to be a bit more tolerant but is absolutely yummier than any food he might fix), and look forward to a great season...but will miss Mr. Doug, a true gentleman.

posted at March 23, 2007 10:56 AM

Luis wrote:

Jesse,

I felt really sad when I found out what happened to Doug. I have not been keeping up with the show, but when I saw the dedication to Doug my jaw dropped. Friendships go through ups and downs. Dont let people try to make you feel guilty just because of the little spiff you had with Doug. Us gays just love DrAmA. Keep up the good work and keep looking good.

posted at March 23, 2007 01:00 PM

joel wrote:

You are a handsome dude with a go get em attitude.. screw the haters... a lil extra isnt anything to worry about. Its just more to cuddle with :)

posted at March 23, 2007 03:18 PM

Angel wrote:

Hey Jesse...
How are you? I have seen the show and enjoy it. Each one of you are cool and down to earth. I think the lesson here--which you have prob. learned is that when you judge--you shall be judged. I just want to say each of you inspire me to have a better looking body and to get my workouts done. Thanks for that! Keep up training! I also love my food. I primarily eat Subway sandwiches LOL! But find myself feening for cornbread, rice and beans {like a typical Puerto rican man} LOL! I enjoy the show and smile more!

God bless.
-Angel

posted at March 23, 2007 04:05 PM

Joe Jersey wrote:

lol, "Im NOT FAT! Im GAY FAT...maybe, chubby" dude I fuckinjg love you, that was hallarious. I think your adorable...keep up the good work.

posted at March 23, 2007 04:20 PM

Mark wrote:

Yeh Jesse, Oh you're so hot, don't worry about that tire around your middle, you're only a trainer that's all. I'll stay tuned to see if e Jackie also hires Mario Batali this season. :D

posted at March 23, 2007 06:34 PM

Jace wrote:

Jesse,

I just finsihed watching the first episode of the new season.I would like to say how happy it makes me to have a positive and intellectual gay man on tv. I after lerning what happened to Doug and watching the "cocktail hour" makes me sad. However it felt amazing to here someone within the gay community to speak on a major issue. With the levels within our own community how can we expect to come together as one. You really touched on a issue thats true to my heart. I very much consider myself an average guy. And I act in a very average way. I am almost embarrassed to be apart of the community and limit alot of my interactions with str8 people that don't judge me. Thank you for being who you are and speaking your mind.

posted at March 23, 2007 07:21 PM

Ralphie wrote:

Ok so today was the first time workout and i think you are amazingly cute and adorable!!!! omg can we date? lol take care my emails ralphie7@gmail.com MUAH

posted at March 23, 2007 08:35 PM

Erik wrote:

People, people...I think a lot of you are missing the point. Yes, it is good to love your body, blah-blah-blah and Jesse is cute... but he's a TRAINER! You can't have a big ole gut and be a trainer. He is getting paid for his knowledge on being fit and the shape a trainer is in is going to definitely influence clients confidence in him. Love yourself, however big you are, just don't be a trainer, it's not believable.

posted at March 24, 2007 01:47 PM

melis wrote:

hey jesse ya know what im wathin this show just for ya, i know you are gay and ma favorite gay cuz you are sooo cuteee
luv yaa

posted at March 24, 2007 11:08 PM

Clark wrote:

Dear Jesse,
I have very much enjoyed your part in the program Workout. I am a gay man living in
West Hollywood so I have been very careful of my food intake as well as regular workouts. I still have to watch my weight. Your comments have been very refreshing.

Thank you!
Clark Kelly
West Hollywood, CA

posted at March 24, 2007 11:46 PM

Treenie wrote:

Jesse? Sweetie you are not only on a hot tv show but a trainer at that. You are adorable and I so choose you on my team but, you are a trainer. You have to set an example to others. When people sign up with you they are looking to be inspired. I really understand why Jackie keeps you close but you need to help her and your not by causing her stress, which you are. You and Doug are the only people worth their salt at this club and you two need to kiss and makeup! He's a friend and I believe him on his remarks as to why he called you Jack. I think it's interesting as no one mentioned the instigator that started it at Jackie's event. He should be FIRED and shame on the lot of you, it was her night and you all showed NO RESPECT for a woman who is awesome and deserves your support.

posted at March 25, 2007 03:33 PM

Carlos wrote:

Jesse..I must say I saw the new episode just last night and I was glad to see you address internalized homophibia....Im not justifying how you responded to Doug's statement about you...but you did nail it on the head when addressing this tenuous homophic hierarchy amongst gay men....It was exciting to see it addressed in the public discourse....and you are absolutely adorable...your body is sexy...hypermuscles aren't the only definition of hot!
Carlos

posted at March 25, 2007 05:28 PM

Dustin Hall wrote:

Dear Jesse,

The gay male community is one of the hardest when it comes to body image. We're all supposed to be chiseled gods or fit some insane physical stereotype. I hope that you are healthy and happy with your body because that's what is important.

posted at March 25, 2007 06:13 PM

jt foster wrote:

dude

did i miss something? didn't jackie try to set you up with one of her friends last year and you were totally not into him because he was soooo queeny or something? whats the difference between that class system and you being compared to jack from will and grace?
you were just as offensive last year ... so get off the high horse.

posted at March 25, 2007 07:47 PM

Tom wrote:

What a great show! Would be nice to have an autograph to add to an already extensive collection. Also am interested in a fitness regimen to get going on the healthier lifestyle that I'm starting. Thanks!

posted at March 25, 2007 08:12 PM

STEPH wrote:

Jesse, you are hilarious! You make the show honey! Love the drama and the way you and Jackie are with each other. I, of course, think Jackie is awesome, because what lezbian doesn't think that! You are awesome too so keep it up! No pun intended!!!! Can't wait to see the next episode!!

posted at March 25, 2007 09:02 PM

Rod in NYC wrote:

Although TRUE Jesse isn't categorically fat, I DID see Jackie's point. Here's a high-end gym with high-end clients. Clients that come in wanting abs like their trainer has. And what does Jesse have? Flab. Jackie wasn't exactly being a monster about this! Jesse is a reflection of the company and Jackie herself. Jackie's product is her ABILITY as a trainer to tighten, and tone flabby bodies.

If Jesse's body is representing Jackie's ability (which working for her club, it would) then Jackie could be perceived as a total fraud. Her reputation's the most important thing she's got in this business. Should she not take steps to protect it?

Although Jackie's approach was shameful for Jesse,I'm sure looking at himself on T.V. did the trick and Jackie won't have to bug him anymore. Still, I'm certain he'd known he had a problem before she made issue of it.

After all, you can't have sex in L.A. and not become acutely aware with every area of your body in need of improvement. But bottomline In fitness there's either FIT OR FAT. GAY is neither the culprit nor benefactor of this truth. Jesse's cling to the "I'm only gay fat" is in essence a convenient Crutch.

In forcing the trainers to remove their shirts, Jackie removed the Crutch Jesse had relied upon. Honestly, but for this episode I'd have never suspected Jesse had anything other than a perfect body. He hid it well under loose fitting shirts from day one.

The good thing is, he's small enough that with two weeks of no carbs, and some crunches he'll be looking hot. GOOD LUCK, JESSE!

posted at March 26, 2007 08:02 AM

ADAM wrote:

I THINK U LOOK GOOD JESSE, EVEN THOUGH U GAINED A FEW POUNDS, I THINK U R HOT, I COULDNT WAIT FOR YOUT SHIRT TO COME OFF AND I WOULD LOVE TO DATE AND GET TO KNOW U, ONLY PROBLEM,I LIVE IN NY
:) LONELY ADAM IN NY

posted at March 26, 2007 12:50 PM

PJ wrote:

Hey Jesse. What is "Black Tie Nights"?

posted at March 26, 2007 03:28 PM

Morgan Lampe wrote:

Hey Jesse,

It's been too long! I screamed when I saw you on tv.
I love watching the show. You'll get to the goal that you want to, but it's hard when you're tempted by those Shakey's pizza's and mojo's!

Morgan in Arizona

posted at March 26, 2007 07:06 PM

AndyInIndiana wrote:

Jesse, I am 5'10" and recently, due to a job loss and a lot of depression, I have ballooned up to 350 lbs.!!!

I am a 36 year old gay man, and it is HARD being overweight in the gay world.

I have not gone to any clubs or gone out with friends in over 9 months.

Hang in there. You have a great opportunity to lose weight. Plus, I would KILL to be as "fat" as you.

Take care and just stop eating sweets. You know what to do.

Love Andy,

P.S. STOP being mean to Doug!!!

posted at March 26, 2007 10:31 PM

MJ wrote:

Its kinda nice to see even a trainer have a less than fully sculpted body - and it'll be nicer to see you prove the workouts really work. Just remember - only taste your culinary creations, don't eat a whole serving.

Thanks for airing the discrimination issue your elders have fought against for so many years, but next time someone chooses such an inappropriate time to address a sensitive subject, please ignore them. There are better times and places, even if others think its cute to play the 'terrible 2 year old troublemaker' no matter who they make miserable.

posted at March 26, 2007 11:41 PM

jasmine wrote:

hi babycakes.. i love you no matter what, even if you're a little fatty.. i'm soooooo joking!! you are my everything, i love you and miss you much!! xoxo

posted at March 27, 2007 01:47 AM

Sean wrote:

Jesse-You are so completely adorable in personality and looks, but forget 'gay-fat', you're becoming 'tres-fat'. Stop it now while you still have time, unless you are in love and your partner is fine with it,but you'll probably lose your Sky-Job.

posted at March 27, 2007 07:37 AM

ROD in NYC wrote:

YES... Jesse has FACE for days!

posted at March 27, 2007 07:48 AM

i love you wrote:

hi jesse, i have been watching the show since day 1 an i feel that the way you treated Doug was atrocious. It was a silly comment and you acted extremly immature about it. I do love you though and your not fat at all like you said its gay fat...

posted at March 27, 2007 09:10 AM

Brenna wrote:

Jesse...
You are so adorable. I just love your smart ass witty comments! I dont think that you shoud feel that you are fat...granted you are a trainer, so your body is your advertisment, but on the other hand, I wouldnt trust a skinny chef...quite the catch 22!! hehe!
Cant wait for the next show!
KISSES!

posted at March 27, 2007 03:06 PM

Brad wrote:

EAT whatever you want to eat!
Happiness is about more than that.

posted at March 27, 2007 03:10 PM

holabrian wrote:

jesse, you're delicious. i'm married but your handsome mug takes my breath away. you are gorgeous exactly as you are. i wouldn't change a thing, mister! mean it.

posted at March 27, 2007 07:17 PM

Min wrote:

Jesse,
You make me so angry. I live in a small town and I know NO gay people, so my only experience is what I see on tv. I think it's true what Doug said, it's nice to see a gay man portrayed differently...as a "regular" looking/acting guy, versus an excitable flamey kindof Jack McF guy. Nothing wrong with Jack McF, but is nice to see a contrast. You big dummy, you didn't get it and you took it personally. You're fine and all, but Doug made a good name for gay people as well and you should be ashamed for being so hostile about it. He was level headed and reasonable...just what he wanted people to know, versus you going all psycho....just what we already think gay men do. You missed the big point, buddy.
And yes, you're chubby.
But I'm chubbier so I'll still be tuning in.

posted at March 27, 2007 10:45 PM

Rich wrote:

Jesse,
Eat whatever you want, you are hot hot hot!

posted at March 27, 2007 11:03 PM

Trudy Friedman wrote:

While I do agree you could use alittle toning, what disturbed me about the situation is how mean your co workers were. If Jackie is serious about going the next step with her business, I would enroll her staff in a course on sensitivity training. If this is how they act with someone who has a slight problem how will they be with people who really have issues about food and weight. I would definitely think twice about going to that club for training. Particularly Peeler, he is very sensitive about his own stuff, but not so much when it is involves someone else, he actually is the ring leader, and anyone who follows him is suspect in the intellect department. I say to Jesse, just stay healthy and good luck.

posted at March 28, 2007 03:03 PM

Michael White wrote:

Fat!!! well you are a bit chubby hun... but you know what your still a cuttie... and you know what i would so pick you up in a bar in a heart beat... oops that's a tmi moment... anyways... if your looking to loose a few pounds come up north i'll work you out, lol yeah, us oregon boys no how to shave a few pounds of love weight, lol anyways... stay cute and sexy and don't worry hun... you'll get back into shape

posted at March 28, 2007 03:18 PM

skylar wrote:

I have to "weigh-in" here with my perspective. Jesse...you are adorable and hot. You look good with your shirt on or off! As a slightly chub myself, I have no connection with perfect abs and 5% body fat. You however, look like a real person(well ok, ridiculously handsome real person) and serve as much more of role model to me. So, keep working out and enjoy a doughnut or two. You are why I watch the show. I love that you have your own blog and am impressed with how well written it is.

posted at March 28, 2007 04:46 PM

Shooter wrote:

Jesse,
If you ever want to grab a drink, give me a call. I think you are cute as hell. My pics are on bigmuscle.com under Triggerman. I am not looking for a boyfriend, per se, but always up for a fun night just grabbing a drink and laughing at life.

posted at March 29, 2007 05:03 AM

Drew J. wrote:

Jesse,

I still LOVE you!!! I want to go out with you!! I wish you lived in NYC.

posted at March 29, 2007 06:09 PM

Brad N wrote:

Jesse,
Hello from Northwestern Pennsylvania. How rural ?? Think Mayberry...on crack. Anyway, love the show and my condolenses to all of you on the loss of Doug. In my personal opinion, from what bits and peices of his life we were fortunate enough to share and the way he was there for Cheo, there is no doubt in my mind that his outter beauty ( SMOKIN' )was only surpassed by a heart even more so. A man very in touch with his feelings, and we could use more like him. No doubt he will be missed by many. The issue between the two of you concerning your respective magazine interviews has been the source of many opinions on your blog. I'm just going to say, things were said, both right and wrong, by both of you. The bigger thing here is the fact that you were able to rise above, and better yet, learn something from this and despite what some may think, that makes you a man in my opinion. While i agree with Peelers opinion that this needed resolved, i did not agree with his extremely poor timing. Its quite clear to me that Peeler has definite " attitude " towards you. I think this stems from day one when he thought he was on the chopping block and you were going to be his replacement. That would be devestating to a man with the ego of Peeler. I think, given your closeness with Jackie, its two parts jealousy and one part insecurity. Mr. Peeler is not used to feeling insecure, or jealous. While i like the others, keep in mind they are jealous of your closeness with the boss lady and they will continue to make catty remarks behind your back. That doesn't make them bad people...just jealous people. You're a smart guy, you already know that. Now, the WEIGHT ISSUE. LOL i will make this short. On a personal level, you are the one who has to live with it. If its not a problem for you, thats fine, screw anyone who thinks otherwise. On a professional level, were you anything other than a fitness trainer, it wouldn't be a problem. Here's how i see it handsome. You sell your ability to improve bodies. If i was looking for a fitness trainer i'm going to look for someone who has a body close to what i want for myself, even if someone else may not have that body, but have superior knowledge. Right or wrong, your body is part of your credentials. Ok, i'm done harping. I will continue to watch the show whether i agree or disagree with what you do or say. If i disagree too much, thats what blogs are for !! Take care and i'll see you tuesday night.

Brad.

posted at March 31, 2007 09:56 AM

Jordan Burkhart wrote:

Jesse! HEy im a religous watcher of workout, and I can honestly say you are one of the main reasons i watch it. You are a total hottie! But anyways i just wanted to say im 17 and all my life i have dealt with being over weight and well now watching the show has inspired me to loose weight. I was 188 and now im 180 (18% body fat) as of weighing myself today, and anyways i just wanted you to know i wish that you wouldnt loose weight cuz when you think that your fat it makes me feel like a whale! Cuz i think you got a great body and to hear the show poke fun of you makes me think "hey being a stocky guy might not be sexy" Personally i have grown to love my genes and accept that i wont be mr. abercrombie but i will be a sexy stocky guy that is confident ...and lets be serious confidence is hot! Anyways I love ya on the show and i think you are great just how you are SERIOUSLY!
later stud
~J

posted at April 3, 2007 09:48 PM

Dan wrote:

Jesse your hot, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Im sorry to hear about Doug, he seems like he was a great guy. Good luck with your food business, I wish I could cook.

posted at April 5, 2007 03:24 PM

lonnie wrote:

hey jesse u look cool just the way u r

posted at April 9, 2007 08:23 PM

becky wrote:

You may have had a little tummy...but it wasnt that bad...everyone cheats every so often...true that you should look great if you are training others to look great lol...You have a funny personality...I know you learned from the past to clarify peoples intentions of what they say before you assume...you know what they say when you assume...I always ask...hey "this is how I heard that", "Is that what you meant". So sorry for the loss you guys endured. I know we are seeing these shows late...I know its hard to see a friend gravitate towards someone they love and you cant hang as much. Key word..have alot of friends lol...Whats the recipe on that shake you and Jackie made on one of the most recent shows?

posted at April 10, 2007 02:38 AM

maxx wrote:

where do you get the necklace everyone is wearing on the show.

Silver circle on black rope...

posted at April 11, 2007 07:05 PM

Dana wrote:

it's good to hear you say that "you're a trainer" but that doesn't mean you don't look fabulous!!!

YOU'RE THE BEST LOOKING GUY ON THE SHOW.

I think everyone knows that and picks out your flaws to hurt you. Don't worry about it...

You look great!!!!

posted at April 17, 2007 05:11 PM

David Z. wrote:

Oh Jesse, don't listen to anyone saying you are fat...far from. Try living in Wisconsin, cheese and beer is always # one on the menu....maybe jackie should take her show for a season here :-P anyways, your still looking good man, just keep that hot personality and sweet face and i'll be happy :-)

posted at April 17, 2007 11:26 PM

Dawn Philips wrote:

jesse, please tell me how to find the recipe for jackie's shake, can't find it anywhere?!?!?!?!?

posted at April 18, 2007 12:49 PM

doug wrote:

Jesse,
I think you still look hot. I just started back at workingout, I wish we had trainers in upstate NY that cares like you. Doug

posted at April 20, 2007 09:43 AM

Nathan wrote:

Jesse,
We love you here in East Texas!! Keep up the hard work and Keep the hole gang in line Sweety.

posted at April 26, 2007 05:11 PM

Cynthia Arguello wrote:

Hi Jesse,Just wanted to say that you crack me up,with out you on this show,well lets just say you make up a big part of the success of this show,I look foward to whats going to set you off each time i watch,the fact that your big enough to appologize when your wrong is to cool keep up the good work,at sky sport and with your cooking career,maybe you can give up some recipes on some healthy good mexican dishes if you come across some,thanks.Love you,Cynthia in LA,a huge fan.

posted at April 30, 2007 04:20 PM